Question 1

Which ring should I choose as a promise ring?

Accepted Answer

Any ring can be a promise ring — the promise is what makes it one. Simple styles work best: a band with a single diamond, a plain gold band, a small heart, or a band of diamonds. If you don't want it mistaken for an engagement ring, skip a large center stone that sits high above the band.

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Question 2

How much does a promise ring cost?

Accepted Answer

There's no set amount to spend on a promise ring. The price depends on the metal — platinum costs more than gold, and 18K gold costs more than 14K — and on how much diamond the ring carries. A plain band has no diamonds to add to the price. Prices change daily, so we show today's live prices below.

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Question 3

Do men wear promise rings?

Accepted Answer

Yes — men wear promise rings too, and a plain band is the simple choice. We make plain bands in gold and platinum in men's widths and sizes. Widths and finishes vary by band, so check the details on each one. For a little sparkle, a band with a single diamond works for him as well.

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Question 4

Can we get matching promise rings as a couple?

Accepted Answer

Yes. The simplest match is two plain bands in the same metal and finish, each in its own width and size. Or pair a diamond band with a plain band in the same gold color. It works the same for him and her, her and her, or him and him.

For a pair made to order, ask us about a custom design — custom pieces are final sale, so settle the sizes first.

Question 5

Is a promise ring the same as an engagement ring?

Accepted Answer

No. An engagement ring is a promise to marry; a promise ring is a promise to each other, often given before a couple is ready to get engaged. A promise ring is usually simpler, without a large raised center stone, so the two aren't confused.

More on what a promise ring means and which finger it goes on: what is a promise ring. When you're ready for the next step: lab grown diamond engagement rings.

Question 6

How do I get the size right if the ring is a surprise?

Accepted Answer

Borrow a ring they already wear on the same finger and have it measured, or ask a close friend to help. Size for the finger it will be worn on: for a right-handed person, the left ring finger is usually about half a size smaller than the right. Fingers also swell in heat and shrink in cold.

Whether a ring can be resized depends on its design, so ask us before you order. Eligible rings get one free resize within 30 days of delivery; resized and engraved pieces are final sale. If you can't get a size at all, a necklace needs none: heart pendants.

Question 7

Should a promise ring be gold or platinum?

Accepted Answer

Both wear well every day. Gold comes in yellow, white or rose, in 14K or 18K: 14K is a little harder and resists scratches better, while 18K has more gold and a richer color. Platinum is naturally white, so it never needs plating, and it costs more than gold. Pick the color you'll want to wear daily.

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